in high school i always had plans for the weekends. so when ppl asked what i was doing i'd tell them. so i didn't think much of ppl asking.

then i went to college where we didn't make plans until an hour before we'd do then if that and ppl started asking more and more.

like this one guy who i hooked up w/ one night (sorta)...he would ask me every few days...one day he even asked 4 times. i definitely let him know that i was interested, but he didn't take the bait...so whatever i thought...

until this other guy and i became friends and he started asking the same question, "what are you doing tonight?" i assumed that he just wanted to know what was going on so that we could all meet up, but still i beame paranoid.

back here at home for the summer an old best friend w/ benefits started asking also "what are you doing tonight?" now since there's nothing to do here, i obviously thought he was just trying to find something to alleviate the boredom...still though....

just when i thought it was over, it happened again...last night at work...this guy found out that i was only 19. he's 20 but assumed i was 22-23 b/c of how old i look. then he asks "what are you doing tonight?" i shrugged and said nothing...but still to no avail it got me nowhere...he changed the subject and that was the end of that.

so just a piece of advice for all you boys out there...if you're gonna ask a girl "what are you doing tonight?" have a follow-up response in the event she doesn't turn you down....please ;)